What kills a relationship???

“Let’s end our relationship before it’s late” said my friend’s girlfriend to him after five years of relationship. And I wonder isn’t five years already late? She said so because her family wanted so called high caste groom for her. The thing that bothers my mind is that ‘is she or her family is going to marry and spend life with him? And what was she thinking before making a relationship?

          A true relationship never ends nor it dies rather it is killed ,yes you heard it correct , it is killed by Ego, it is killed by Aggression ,or it is killed by privacy or secrecy or it is murdered by feeling of revenge or murdered by attraction towards someone else they think better than previous one. The thing is if they wanted a private life, freedom or secret life then why to stay in a relationship? WHY? You can choose single life and enjoy any sort of freedom or privacy, you want isn’t it?

          A true relationship is a commitment, a complete commitment toward each other. So if you are ready to be committed for the one you love then go for relationship else you are better off alone. The main reason why relation ends these days is because you never loved each other ,it was just a beautiful attraction or trend or fashion of making so called boyfriend or girlfriend and when someone better enters in your life, again you are attracted toward him or her then you suddenly start hating your previous love or assumed life partner. Husband changes to ‘jerk’ and wife changes to ‘slut’.This chain keeps on continuing and as a result you can never feel true love or heavenly feeling created by the beautiful word called ‘Love’. And then you start saying ‘Love is waste of time’.

          Once, love by a pure heart and by all your effort , love by heart not by eyes, love the feeling not the physique, then see everything around you  becomes beautiful, you start seeing whole world in a single person. Your destination will be bounded up to that special person and you will say “life is beautiful”.

          There’s nothing called impossible in this world, all it requires is the willingness, the courage and the optimistic feeling for success. Give your 100 percent, have faith upon your love and one day you are definitely going to win. Love truly and don’t let go your love no matter what happens and nobody in this world can make you apart.  It’s completely up to you how you are going to make your love life .So ‘act true, live happy’.